Sober Consent: April Awareness for Alcohol & Sexual Assault

There are many people who look the other way to the pain happening around them. Our prayer is that we stay alert, speak up, and stand with those who need help, refusing to let shame darken their hearts. If you are hurting, please know you are not alone. And if you have been harmed or have caused harm because of what was done to you, help and healing are possible.

Sexual assault and alcohol often overlap, and that can make things confusing and painful. Alcohol can impair judgment and the ability to give or interpret clear consent. Perpetrators sometimes exploit intoxication, and survivors who were drinking may feel blamed or ashamed even though the responsibility always lies with the person who caused harm.

Prevention is simple but powerful: watch out for friends, use a buddy system, speak up if a situation seems unsafe, and support policies that make venues and events safer. Teach and expect sober, enthusiastic consent. Bystander intervention and clear safety rules reduce risk for everyone.

If an assault happens, there is help and hope. Find a safe place, consider medical care, and reach out to trusted people or confidential support services. Counseling, substance‑use treatment, and advocacy services can help both survivors and people who have harmed others to break cycles of pain. Shame should never stop someone from asking for help.

You are not alone. Contact local sexual‑assault hotlines, health professionals, or community support services for confidential guidance and next steps.

National Sexual Assault Hotline (open 24/7)

call or text 1-800-656-4673